A munch is a social gathering for people interested in BDSM. This is a non-sexual, casual gathering for people to talk, get to know each other, and just generally shoot the shit. It can happen anywhere -- a restaurant, coffee shop, or a bar. This is simply a gathering of anyone interested in the BDSM community, who either currently partakes in BDSM in their private life, is simply interested, or whatever! It's a totally safe, fun, sex-free zone to get to know people who are interested in something that you also enjoy.
What's a play party?
In a separate room from the non-sexual munch, there will be an area where actual kinky stuff could potentially happen. This is also where games (that have a kinky twist) can be played for fun or coin prizes, or people can engage in consensual scenes in the designated side room. There will be strict rules to be followed to make sure everything is safe, sane, and consensual for those involved, and no one is required to do anything they don't want, period! Feel free to come and go as you want, to stay in the munch area, simply watch, or participate. Whatever your heart desires!
Who's allowed?
Mostly anyone. You'll need to message me privately using my contact information at the bottom if you're interested in going. If you've been invited to a previous munch or party, we'd love to have you back. Just message me to get directions ((OOC: A Discord invite)). Anyone -- anyone -- who is known to openly ignore consent, use BDSM as a manipulation tactic, or has sexually assaulted another person without many people vouching for a change of heart is not allowed. I don't care when it was. You're not allowed. If you think I'm talking about you, I am. You're not allowed.
Other than that, this is a completely politics-free zone. I don't care which city faction you belong to. Really! Any person who is cleared is allowed to go, and clearance has nothing to do with your familial or clan affiliation. This isn't about the city politics at all, and all political discussion will be banned. There's a time and place, and this ain't it. I mean it. If anyone finds themselves discussing any politics during the munch, you will get one warning. After the first warning, you're out, and you're banned from any further gatherings.
When is it?
Every month! Fill out this form so that we can find the best time for the most amount of people: https://doodle.com/poll/f7y787sstaei5zp7
Where is it?
The same location as the last party. Please message me privately to get the directions ((OOC: We have a Discord server)).
When's the sex?
In designated places, only, if at all. No one is forced to join in anything, or witness anything they don't like. Last time, there was no sex that occurred, at all, but it is allowed solely in the designated area. Again, this will be a private event, and you are not allowed to bring anyone without first clearing it with a host (myself and Anders). This will be held at a private location, so that we have complete control over who comes in, so no creepers are allowed. There will possibly be some informative sections at the party itself, such as shibari or how to properly take care of a submissive after the act, while they're still in sub-space (Ask if you're confused about these terms!).
I'm in!
Please message me privately if you're interested in coming to the munch. I hope it'll be fun for everyone, informative, and a great way to start a solidified BDSM community here in RB. I know there are tons of people here that partake in many different ways, and I hope to get to know each of you.
Peace, love, & kinky shit,
Ezra de Draak
((Discord: trashonion#6764))
Ezra de Draak
((Discord: trashonion#6764))
OOC INFO:
Must be 18+. If I find out you are underage and trying to sneak in, I'll be a dick and report you to RB so you're not allowed in chats, and ban you from all further events. I ain't kidding.
Don't be a creep. Make sure whoever you're writing with is cool with the things you are writing -- before you write it. The munch itself is strictly non-sexual in action, and much stricter ground rules are laid out for the party. If I find out anyone has violated this or made anyone else uncomfortable, IC or OOC, you'll be banned from future events. This includes OOC harassment or anyone that has a history of OOC harassment, and is at my discretion. This is a private event and I'm under no obligation to invite everyone under the sun if they've got a bad history. Sorry, not sorry.
Discord. All interactions will be held on a private Discord channel. You may not hand this link out to anyone. Anyone. I will personally hand the link out to those who want to come, to prevent anyone who may be predatory/underage from joining. The server also remains open in between munches, if people have any questions, etc, or plan to join future events and don't want to re-join the server every time.
Just be nice, y'all. Be nice IC, and be nice OOC. This will not devolve into a dick-waving contest, and if it does, I'll immediately shut it down. This is a non-political, non-shit talking, non-pissing contest event. It's just for fun, and a way for our characters to connect. Plz don't ruin this for anyone.
